The Buyer Has a Banker. Do You? Selling a St. Louis Business

Revised October 22, 2026

Would you sell the thing you spent twenty years building to someone who buys companies for a living, when you have sold exactly none? That is the deal most owners walk into.

A letter shows up, or a voice on the phone says it represents a buyer who “admires the business,” and then says a number. You write it on the back of an invoice and think about it the whole drive home on Highway 40. That night you sit at the kitchen table, shop dust still on your boots, reading glasses on, staring at it. Generous? Insulting? You honestly cannot tell. Nobody can, from one number and one buyer.

One buyer sets a price. Several buyers discover one.

Here is that gap at hometown scale. When Anheuser-Busch and InBev agreed to terms in July 2008, the boards endorsed a deal that was $5 a share better than InBev’s initial proposal of four weeks earlier, which Anheuser-Busch had called inadequate. The value rose to $52 billion from $46.4 billion. After the board said the first number was not enough, the number moved.

That gap is what an investment bank is for, and it is why the same company can sell for very different money depending only on how it went to market.

Before you pay anyone, there is a door in St. Louis most owners walk right past. The Missouri Small Business Development Center runs a St. Louis Region office, with satellites at the St. Louis Economic Development Partnership and the St. Louis Small Business Empowerment Center. Its own page describes help at every stage, “mature to succession,” and says “All one-on-one counseling is confidential.” The St. Louis Region office’s number is 314-241-1005. A counselor there is not a banker and will not run your sale. But a quiet first conversation, before a buyer or an advisor sees your books, costs you an hour and can save you from signing the wrong letter. The SBDC’s locations page lists the St. Louis Region office and its satellites with phone numbers.

Then there is a Missouri twist worth a call to your CPA tonight. The state Department of Revenue now lets eligible individuals “subtract 100% of their federally reported capital gains” on their Missouri return. Read the fine print before you pop anything open: the same page says a corporation cannot claim it “at this time,” and a pass-through entity paying the PTE tax cannot either. So the way you sell, stock or assets, and which entity the gain lands in, can decide whether that break ever reaches your pocket. Read the Department of Revenue’s own FAQ and take it to your first meeting, along with three years of tax returns and the letter itself.

Maybe your version of the number looks different. You are sixty-something and no one in the family wants the keys. You and a partner got an unsolicited letter of intent and cannot agree on whether to answer it. The company is growing and you need real money to buy out a founder who wants his cash now. Different paper, same knot in the stomach: who is actually sitting on my side of the table? None of this is legal, tax or financial advice. Your deal turns on facts only your CPA, your attorney and an advisor reading your real numbers can weigh.

What is the role of an investment bank?

That number on the back of the invoice is lonely. An investment bank gives it company. It runs the sale or the financing of a company on behalf of its owner: it prepares the financials, sets a defensible value range, builds a confidential buyer list, runs a competitive process, manages diligence and negotiates terms. The job is creating options, so the owner is not negotiating alone against a professional buyer.

Strip the language away and the mechanism is competition. Three sealed offers due on the same deadline, each buyer staring at the same binder and wondering what the other two wrote. The first buyer who called you was alone with you. Now he is not, and his number knows it. That pressure is most of what an owner is paying for.

Put a St. Louis name on it. Stifel, founded in 1890 and headquartered at One Financial Plaza on North Broadway, describes its own investment bankers as strategic advisors to “entrepreneurs, family-owned businesses, private equity groups” and public and private corporations. That is the shape of the job, written by a firm headquartered in this city. Before the first meeting, ask any advisor on your list, big or small, what size of company they take on. Their minimum is the fastest way to find out whether they are your table.

The second half of the job is quieter. The person who called you does acquisitions for a living. The owner across the table usually sells once. That lopsided setup is how the process is built, not a flaw in you, and it shows up in small places: what gets included in the definition of working capital, how an earnout is measured, which representations survive closing and for how long. Those clauses are worth real money and they are settled by whoever understands them better. Missouri even writes one of them into the statute. Before a business contracts to sell all or substantially all of itself, the seller has to request a certificate of no tax due from the Department of Revenue to hand the buyer, and skipping that step adds a penalty of 25% of whatever back taxes you owed at the time of sale. Until the buyer holds the certificate, the buyer is supposed to withhold enough of the purchase money to cover those taxes, or become personally liable for them. Read the Department’s FAQ for the exact wording. Better to hear about it from your advisor on day one than from the buyer’s lawyer in week nine.

There is also a buffering role nobody advertises. An advisor can push, stall, ask an insulting question and say no, all without poisoning the relationship the owner may still need after closing, through a transition period or an earnout year. You can be the reasonable one in the room precisely because somebody else is being difficult on your behalf.

A word on terms. Investment bank, M&A advisor, middle-market advisor and sell-side advisor all get used for roughly the same work at this size. The label on the door tells you less than the answer to a plain question: do you routinely sell companies that look like mine, to the kind of buyer likely to want mine?

What do investment bankers actually do all day?

Far less phone-slamming than the movies suggest. It is less shouting and more of your old tax returns spread across a conference table under a highlighter. Most of a sell-side engagement is preparation, research and document work, punctuated by a few weeks of genuinely intense negotiation. Owners are often surprised by how much of it happens before a single buyer hears the company’s name.

Getting the numbers ready to survive a stranger

Your books were built to satisfy a bank line and a tax return. A buyer will read them looking for reasons to pay less. So the first stretch of work is rebuilding the financial story: normalizing earnings, separating the owner’s personal expenses from the business, explaining the year revenue dipped, showing gross margin by product line or by job. This is unglamorous and it is where a lot of value is either protected or quietly lost.

Building the buyer list

Then comes research. Strategic buyers already in your industry, adjacent companies that want your capability or your customers, private equity groups with a platform in your space, sometimes a management team or a family member with financing behind them. A good list is longer and stranger than an owner expects, because the buyer who pays the most is often one you have never heard of and would never have called.

Running the process and the negotiation

After that it is outreach under a confidentiality agreement, management meetings, indications of interest, a letter of intent, then diligence. During diligence the advisor becomes a project manager, chasing documents, keeping the buyer’s list from expanding forever, and keeping the owner focused on running the company. That last part matters more than it sounds. Deals fall apart when the business misses its numbers during diligence because the owner spent the quarter in a data room.

When is your company big enough for an investment bank instead of a business broker?

The honest answer is that the line is not a revenue number, and anyone who gives you one is guessing. What actually decides it is who the likely buyer is. If the probable buyer is an individual borrowing against the business to buy himself a job, that is broker territory. If the probable buyer is another company or a financial sponsor with a diligence team, you want an M&A advisor.

What a business broker does well

Brokers move owner-operated businesses efficiently: the restaurant, the small route, the neighborhood service company, the shop that runs on one person and a phone. They typically list, market to a pool of individual buyers, and help with a comparatively simple transaction. For the right business that is exactly the right tool, and paying investment banking fees on it would be waste.

What an investment bank does differently

An M&A advisor does not list your business. It runs a confidential, targeted, competitive process aimed at a specific set of buyers, with real diligence support and real negotiation over structure. Structure is the point. On a deal of any size, how you get paid, in cash, in a note, in rolled equity, held in escrow, tied to an earnout, matters as much as the number on page one.

The awkward middle

Plenty of companies sit between the two, and the tell is complexity rather than size. Multiple locations, meaningful customer concentration, licensing, real estate held in a separate entity, a management team that could run it without you, intellectual property, licensed trades, regulated work: any of these push you toward an advisor. So does a business that has already attracted unsolicited interest, because interest means somebody strategic has noticed you.

What are the signs that it’s time to sell my business?

Rarely one dramatic moment. It is usually a set of smaller signals that have been accumulating for a year or two while the owner told himself he would think about it after the busy season. Naming them out loud is often the useful part.

Repeat unsolicited interest is the loudest one. A single cold call is noise. Three approaches in eighteen months, from different directions, means your industry is consolidating and buyers have a thesis about companies like yours. That is a market signal about timing, and it has nothing to do with how you feel.

The next set is personal. You have stopped reinvesting. You are turning down growth that would require debt or a new building because you cannot see yourself paying it off. A partner wants out, or a health issue changed the math, or the next generation has made it clear, kindly, that they are not coming back. When the owner’s horizon gets shorter than the company’s, the business starts drifting whether or not anyone says so.

Then there are structural signals. The company needs capital it cannot fund from cash flow. One customer has grown into a share of revenue that keeps you up at night. Everything still runs through you personally, which is exactly the thing a buyer will discount. Notice that most of these are fixable, and that fixing them takes years, not weeks. Which is why the best time to talk to an advisor is well before you intend to do anything.

The worst timing is forced timing. Illness, a partner dispute, a lost anchor customer, a lender getting nervous. Buyers can smell urgency, and it comes out of the price.

What does a sell-side process actually look like?

Longer than you want and shorter than you fear. A full process is measured in months rather than weeks, and it moves in distinct phases with different demands on your time. Knowing the shape of it ahead of time is most of what keeps an owner sane through the middle of it.

Preparation

Financial cleanup, normalized earnings, a value range you and your advisor both believe, and the written materials: a short blind teaser with no identifying details, and a confidential information memorandum for buyers who have signed an NDA. This is also when the ugly items get dug up on purpose. Every business has two or three. Finding yours now, with a plan, is far better than a buyer finding them in week nine of diligence.

Going to market

Outreach goes out quietly. Interested parties sign confidentiality agreements, receive the memorandum, ask questions, and the serious ones request management meetings. Then indications of interest arrive, and this is the moment competition does its work. Several parties, on the same deadline, form their own view of value without knowing what the others said.

Letter of intent and diligence

You pick one, sign a letter of intent, and usually grant exclusivity for a defined window. Then diligence begins and it is thorough: financial, tax, legal, insurance, customer contracts, employment records, environmental if there is a building involved, quality of earnings work by an outside accounting firm. Meanwhile you have to run the company well. That is the part owners underestimate.

Documents and closing

Purchase agreement, disclosure schedules, escrow terms, non-compete, a transition or employment arrangement if you are staying. Your attorney and your CPA do the heavy lifting here and the advisor keeps everyone moving. Closing is anticlimactic. Most owners describe it as a quiet afternoon that does not feel like twenty years ending.

Closed the deal? Take the family somewhere loud: plan an amusement park day.

How do investment banks charge, and what should you look at?

The structure is consistent across the industry even though the numbers are not. An owner pays a retainer, monthly or upfront, and then a success fee at closing. The success fee is by far the larger piece, which is the design: the advisor is paid mainly for getting a deal done on good terms, not for the work of trying.

Percentages vary with deal size and complexity and they are negotiated, so treat any number you read online as somebody else’s deal. What deserves your attention is not the rate anyway. It is the definitions around it, and those live in the engagement letter.

Read that letter with your attorney and ask, in plain words, about four things. What exactly counts as transaction value, since cash at closing, assumed debt, rolled equity and a future earnout are very different animals. Whether the retainer is credited against the success fee. What the exclusivity period is and how you exit if the relationship is not working. And what the tail provision says, meaning how long after the engagement ends you still owe a fee if a buyer they introduced comes back around. Tail clauses are normal and reasonable. Being surprised by one is not.

Ask about expenses too, and about who on the team actually does the work. Sometimes the person who wins the engagement is not the person you will speak to in month four.

How do you choose between two or three advisors?

Interview them the way you would interview a surgeon. Shortlist two or three worth an hour, then tell each of them the same plain story: here is my company, here is roughly what it earns, here is why I am thinking about this, and here is what I want to happen. Then stop talking and listen to what comes back. Which is a habit worth borrowing long before a sale: the owners who get the best terms got known and trusted years before they needed anything. Are you building that now, or only when you need it?

You are not collecting quotes. No serious advisor is going to hand you a written estimate for a deal that does not exist yet, and asking for one mostly signals that you have not done this before. What you are comparing is the distance between what you asked for and what each of them is prepared to deliver. The gap is the signal, not the fee.

Useful questions to bring. Have you sold companies in my industry, and what happened. Who is my day-to-day contact and how many engagements are they carrying right now. How do you build the buyer list, and roughly how many parties would you approach for a business like mine. What do you think my weaknesses look like to a buyer. How do you protect confidentiality when the buyer is a competitor. How many of your engagements in the past two years actually closed.

That last one is the question people are embarrassed to ask. Ask it. An advisor who takes every engagement that walks in and closes a fraction of them is running a different business than one who is selective and finishes what it starts. And pay attention to whether anyone is willing to tell you no. An advisor who says your company is not ready, or that a broker is the better fit, has just given you something more valuable than a pitch.

For investment banks and M&A advisors across the metro

Think about the owner at the kitchen table with a number on the back of an invoice, or the two partners with an unsolicited letter of intent they cannot agree on. They are trying to answer one question before they pick up the phone: is my company even the kind of company this firm works with, or am I about to embarrass myself?

So answer it on the page, in language an owner uses. Say what size and type of company you actually take on, and say it without a coy range. Name the industries you have real depth in. Explain how you are engaged, retainer plus success fee, in structure, since owners have no idea that is even how it works and the mystery is what keeps them from calling.

Then answer the practical fears. Is the first conversation confidential and does it cost anything. What documents should an owner bring. How do you keep a process quiet when the natural buyer is a competitor down the road, and what happens to employees who find out. Roughly how long does a process take. Do you also do buy-side work, financing, or valuations for estate and partner-buyout purposes, because a lot of owners need that years before they need a sale.

The firms that publish those things get calls from owners who have already decided. The ones that publish a page of vague language about maximizing enterprise value get calls from nobody, and then wonder why the deal flow comes only from referrals. Refuse to be invisible.

Frequently asked questions

At what point should you sell your business?

Ideally while the business is performing well and you still have the energy to be useful through a transition. Buyers pay for momentum, and a company with growing earnings, a stable customer base and a management team that functions without the owner is a far easier story to tell. The point to avoid is a forced sale after illness, a partner dispute or a lost anchor customer. Since preparing properly takes years rather than months, most owners are better off starting the conversation long before they intend to act.

Should I sell my business to a private equity firm?

It depends on what you want afterward. A financial buyer often wants the owner or the management team to stay involved and to roll some equity into the new company, which can mean a second payout later if things go well, and a real loss if they do not. A strategic buyer in your industry may want full ownership and may fold the operation in. Neither is better in the abstract. Compare them on structure, on what happens to your people, and on how much of your money stays at risk.

How much is a business worth with $1,000,000 in sales?

Nobody can answer that, and revenue is the wrong input. Buyers price on earnings, usually seller’s discretionary earnings for smaller owner-operated companies and EBITDA for larger ones, then apply a multiple. That multiple moves with industry, margin, growth, customer concentration, recurring versus one-time revenue, the quality of the books, and how dependent the business is on the owner personally. Two companies with identical sales can be worth very different amounts. A real answer requires an advisor or a valuation professional reading your actual financials.

How do I calculate capital gains on the sale of my business?

Broadly, gain is what you receive less your basis, but for a business that calculation is more complicated than it sounds. The structure drives everything. An asset sale allocates the price across categories of assets, and some of that can be taxed as ordinary income rather than capital gain, including depreciation recapture on equipment. A stock or membership interest sale is treated differently. Installment sales spread proceeds over years. The actual numbers depend entirely on your entity, your basis and your deal terms, so this belongs to your CPA and a tax attorney reading the real documents.

How do I avoid capital gains tax on selling my business?

Think managing, not avoiding: the honest levers are structure and timing. Deal structure matters, since buyers usually prefer an asset purchase and sellers often prefer a stock sale, and that tension is negotiated. Installment sales change when proceeds are recognized. In Missouri, eligible individuals can now subtract federally reported capital gains on the state return, while corporations cannot claim that subtraction yet, so the entity the gain lands in matters. Bring your CPA and a tax attorney in before you sign a letter of intent, not after.

Will investment bankers be replaced by AI?

Parts of the work are already getting faster. Research, buyer list building, first drafts of marketing materials and document review inside diligence are all tasks software handles well. What does not transfer is the rest of it: reading a buyer’s real motivation in a management meeting, knowing which term to concede and which to hold, calming an owner at two in the morning, and having the relationships that get a phone call returned. For a closely held company, the job is judgment and negotiation under pressure. Expect the tools to change and the role to stay.

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